Why so COMPLICATED?

I was wondering, why can't things in life be simple and easy-to-understand and a bit-even just a bit less-complicated?

Why do you have to be liking someone and they someone else and that someone else someone else and so on and so on and on and on?

Why can't we choose something that we really wanna do from the bottom of our heart but we don't do it for the fear of what our loved ones would say? I mean in such a case its so tough! Such a tricky situation the Fates put on us-at one side is our happiness, our well being, our future and at the other side the happiness of one of our closest people in our life? Choosing our happiness would put them in a bad light and maybe our relations would be upset too...

But what do you do? Put yourself in misery and do something that you really wouldn't like to do?

How easily, we judge people who we have just met or our colleagues, or people we hear about. We say with clear cut conscience backed righteousness, "No, no, thats not the way, he is totally wrong. He is at fault."

But when it comes to our family and closest friends, our conscience seems to have died!

However we may try, we cannot come to a conclusion as to whether they did wrong or was it just the circumstances or whether they deserve whats happening to them or the most important of all-should we take their side and snuff our conscience? Or risk their disapproval and go ahead with what a part of our brain and heart tells us to do?

You see? How confusing it gets?

Why can't everything be simple and easy and straight? Why do things have to be circles and circles?

Weird life!